- Ephesians 5:12-21
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Eph 5:12
		For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of 
		them in secret.
		
		 
		Shame - Disgraceful
		
		 
		Here the Bible enters a “discretion principle.” 
		Since people love to gossip, it is wise to keep hidden the sordid 
		details of a person’s life.  
		Pastors especially, need to be careful not to discuss too many intimate 
		details with others.  Some 
		sinful acts are very hideous and need not be mentioned. 
		Paul is trying to get the point across that Christians should not 
		dwell on their lives before salvation. 
		Giving a testimony, turns the eyes of all on the person giving it 
		and turns it away from Christ. 
		After a person becomes saved, the unsaved part of their life is 
		cast behind the back of God.  
		“Behold, for peace I had great 
		bitterness: but thou hast in love to my soul
		delivered it from the 
		pit of corruption: for thou hast cast all my sins behind thy back.” 
		(Isaiah 38:17) 
		If you can find the back of God, then you can find your 
		sins.  Testimony based 
		Christians, begin to almost bask in the limelight of their sins. 
		Christ gets lost in their testimony as all eyes are on them. 
		David Berkowitz, once known as the Son of Sam, now proclaims 
		himself as the “Son of Hope.” 
		He seeks to shed his pre-salvation life in favor of the one that 
		gives glory to God.   He 
		is not disregarding what he did, he wants to move on and glorify God 
		now.  David has the right 
		attitude in this.  I know he 
		is sincere having visited him many times in prison. 
		We as Christians must do the same things. 
		Let us not bask in what we were but let us rejoice in who we are 
		because of Christ.  Therein 
		lies the testimony!  
		“Brethren, I count not myself to 
		have apprehended: but this one thing I do,
		forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth 
		unto those things which are before,”  
		(Philippians 3:13) 
		 The world may 
		not forget what we were, but God has. 
		“For I will be merciful to 
		their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I 
		remember no more.”  
		(Hebrews 8:12) 
		The disgraceful part comes in when we seem to glorify 
		our sinful past.
		
		 
		
		Eph 5:13
		But all things that are reproved are made manifest by the 
		light: for whatsoever doth make manifest is light.
		
		 
		Reproved - being exposed or refuted
		Manifest - To disclose or reveal
		
		 
		This verse is teaching us that everything which is hidden by the 
		unbeliever is exposed and is disclosed or revealed by the true Gospel. 
		The unbeliever tries to hide the things they are doing in hopes 
		that no one will see what they are doing. 
		In many countries there are privacy laws that it is no one’s 
		business what goes on behind closed doors as long as there are 
		consenting adults involved.  
		How deceived is the unbeliever to think that these laws will somehow 
		cause them to escape the judgment they don’t believe in. 
		“Woe unto them that seek 
		deep to hide their counsel from the LORD, and their works are in the 
		dark, and they say, Who seeth us? and who knoweth us?” 
		(Isaiah 29:15)  
		Every 
		act will be brought into judgment and nothing will be hidden that will 
		not be disclosed.  We have a 
		great example of this principle found in the book of Exodus. 
		“And he looked this way and 
		that way, and when he saw that 
		there was no man, he slew the Egyptian, and hid him in the sand.” 
		(Exodus 2:12)  
		When 
		Moses killed the Egyptian, he looked every way around him but he 
		neglected to look up.  This 
		is the same attitude of the unbeliever, they look around but never look 
		up.
		
		 
		The verse continues on to tell us that is causing the darkness to be 
		exposed to the light is the true Gospel. 
		When any work of darkness is compared to the true Gospel, the 
		true nature of the false teaching or the sinful act is exposed. 
		This is why the Bible can be the only standard by which the 
		Christian can measure what they come in contact with, whether it is 
		teachings or actions.  
		Knowing the Scriptures will keep us from spiritual ruin.
		
		 
		
		Eph 5:14
		Wherefore he saith, Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, 
		and Christ shall give thee light.
		
		 
		Here is the admonition to the Christian that we are to awake out of our 
		spiritual stupor and not to involve ourselves with the same things that 
		the heathens are involving themselves in. 
		We see this in church after church that has succumbed to 
		political pressures and have ordained women and homosexuals. 
		They have thrown out the King James Bible and placed the sodomite 
		NIV in the pews so the indolent parishioners don’t have to think too 
		much when reading it.  We 
		wouldn’t want to displace all their sports statistics they have in their 
		head.  It is a sorry thing 
		but the majority of western Christians are sleeping and in spiritual 
		comas.
		
		 
		The Bible here is also telling us to “arise from the dead.” 
		It actually means, and this is interesting, “ek twn nekrwn.”  
		This passage is actually telling us to rise from out of the dead! 
		“Ek” means out of and “nekron” means “dead.“ 
		In other words, we have no business living our lives in a 
		cemetery.  The world is a 
		virtual cemetery of spiritually dead people. 
		How can we show the resurrection of our souls and the newness of 
		life if we are living in the same manner as the spiritually dead? 
		We are to arise and live as Christians and then Christ will give 
		us the light to show us the difference between the deadness of sin and 
		the life of Christ.  The 
		light He gives us will also guide our path so we will avoid the pitfalls 
		of any sin. “Thy word is a lamp unto 
		my feet, and a light unto my path.” 
		(Psalm 119:105)  “And 
		they shall teach my people the 
		difference between the holy and profane, and cause them to 
		discern between the unclean and the clean.” (Ezekiel 44:23)
		
		
		 
		
		Eph 5:15
		See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise,
		
		 
		Circumspectly - Diligently and carefully
		
		 
		This admonition builds on the previous verse that if the Christian walks 
		in the light, then they will be walking very carefully so not to get 
		entangled again in any sinful situations or lifestyles. 
		The Christian’s life is that of an evangelist, either you are 
		exuding a good testimony or a bad one. 
		“It 
		is as sport to a fool to do mischief: but a man of understanding 
		hath wisdom.”  (Proverbs 
		10:23)  
		A fool 
		takes sin lightly and even considers it a challenge to see what they can 
		get away with.  They don’t 
		understand that they will get away with nothing. 
		The Christian is to walk in wisdom which is walking in the truth 
		and light of the Gospel.  The 
		Christian will want nothing to do with the sinful entanglements of this 
		present world.  We must order 
		our life according to the laws of Scripture. 
		The whole Bible being the Law of God. 
		“Where is boasting then? 
		It is excluded. By what law? of works? Nay: but by the law of 
		faith.” (Romans 3:27) 
		
		Christians cannot do what the world does because were 
		delivered out of the kingdom of Satan and we have no business going 
		back.
		
		
		
		 
		
		Eph 5:16
		
		Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.
		
		 
		Redeeming - Deliver, buy back, or rescue
		
		 
		This is a very important verse because it gives a tremendous principle. 
		“And I will restore to you 
		the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the 
		caterpillar, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you.” 
		(Joel 2:25)   When a person becomes saved, normally they are saved 
		from a life of waste.  That 
		life of waste, is not only of material goods or whatever, but the waste 
		was done in the confines of time. 
		We can never reclaim the time we lost being in the world before 
		salvation and we must never dwell on those years. 
		
		“Brethren, 
		I count not myself to have apprehended: but
		this one thing
		I do, forgetting 
		those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things 
		which are before,”
		  (Philippians 3:13)  
		I was 
		saved at the age of 27 and was 50 when I wrote this commentary and am 
		now 66 as I revise the commentary. 
		I cannot reclaim those first 27 years which were spent in vanity 
		but now as a Christian, I am still within the confines of time and 
		instead of frittering the years away with useless things like sports and 
		other worldly traps, we are to buy back or rescue the remaining amount 
		of time that we have from any worldly waste. 
		Christians should be hard at work in getting out the Gospel. 
		Redeeming the time is a serious command to the Christian. 
		When they give your final eulogy, will they say you were a strong 
		Christian or will they say you were a great golfer?
		
		 
		When we look at the Joel verse we see that God will give us those years 
		that the Canker worm stole.  
		He won’t turn back the clock, but He will give us a full Christian life. 
		When God removes something from us, He will always replace it 
		with something of more value. 
		Can a true Christian honestly say that it is more beneficial for 
		a child to play softball or Soccer on Sunday morning rather than attend 
		church?  Those years I lost 
		to the world are doubly made up in being used to propagate the Gospel. 
		My old life was of this world and my new life is set up for 
		eternal things.  God restored 
		the dead years with years of eternity. 
		“He that hath ears to hear, let him hear.” (Matthew 11:15)  
		
		
		
		 
		
		Eph 5:17
		
		Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the 
		Lord is.
		
		 
		Wherefore - Because of this
		Unwise - Foolish
		Understanding - Perceive or comprehend
		
		 
		Continuing the thought from Verse 16, that because the days of our 
		sojourn are evil, we need to walk in wisdom, that is in accordance with 
		the Word of God which is our guideline for living in this world. 
		If we choose to walk in the ways of the world, we are living in 
		foolishness as the unbeliever lives. 
		Instead, we are to comprehend the will of the Lord, that is, in 
		one essence, the will of the Lord for the believer is not to walk in any 
		of the ways of the world.  On 
		the other hand, the will of the Lord for the believer is to walk in the 
		Word.  So part of the Will of 
		God is to shun sin and the bigger part is to walk in obedience. 
		“I beseech you therefore, 
		brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living 
		sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God,
		which is your reasonable 
		service. {2} And be not 
		conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your 
		mind, that ye may prove what
		is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.” 
		(Romans 12:1-2) 
		 The 
		will of the Lord for the believer is obedience and then God will show us 
		where we are to serve.
		
		 
		
		Eph 5:18
		And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be 
		filled with the Spirit;
		
		 
		Drunk - Intoxicate or inebriated
		Excess - Wastefulness
		Filled - Complete or supplied fully
		
		 
		Here is another admonition to the Believer. 
		Alcohol flows by the millions of gallons in this country and is 
		easily accessible to anyone, Christians included. 
		I was told by a German man once that they had beer at every Bible 
		study.  My question is, when 
		does culture end and Christ begin? 
		Remember in verse 16 that we are to redeem or buy back the 
		remaining time in our lives.  
		Well if we spend time drinking alcohol, and that basically includes 
		getting involved with other alcohol related things like parties and 
		such, then we are wasting the precious years that we have left. 
		We will also be shortening our life as the party scene will take 
		much toll on the human body.  
		Now the believer is not to be filled with alcohol which produces a life 
		of foolishness but we are to be filled with the Holy Spirit.
		
		 
		When we became saved, at that moment we were baptized in the Holy 
		Spirit, who now indwells us for eternity. 
		We are not to be filling ourselves with alcohol but we are to be 
		filled or made complete by the Spirit. 
		A Christian can only mature as they yield more and more of their 
		life to the Holy Spirit.  
		This does not only mean forsaking the ways of the world, but it also 
		means that we are to shun false teachings which we may have embraced. 
		For example, if a person believed in tongue speaking but then 
		came across material which biblically refuted it, then we are not to 
		continue to believe what we want, we must switch our focus on to the 
		truth.  The essence of being 
		filled with the Spirit, is yielding ourselves to His teachings and His 
		ways.  Once we do that, there 
		will be a stabilizing of our beliefs and life, even during the most 
		difficult times.  As a friend 
		of mine once preached, “it is not how much of the Holy Spirit you have, 
		but how much of you does He have?” 
		In other words, how yielded to Him are you? 
		Do not expect to grow in your Christian walk, if you neglect the 
		filling of the Holy Spirit. 
	
	Another important aspect of this verse is the spiritual aspect. 
	In the pagan days of Greece or Rome or one of the other pagan 
	societies, they believed getting drunk would bring them closer to their god 
	and that the false god would somehow connect with them. 
	When many of these became saved, they brought the same mindset into 
	the church and that is why Paul had to address the problem of drunkenness. 
	It was done out of debauchery but mainly to become one with their 
	god.  Paul addressed this because 
	many thought they could connect with God the Father or the Lord Jesus Christ 
	by getting drunk and Paul had to deter that type of thinking. 
	God approached that very subject in Deuteronomy. 
	
 
	 Ye have not eaten bread, neither have ye drunk wine or 
	strong drink: that ye might know that I am the LORD your God. (Deuteronomy 
	29:6) A similar situation exists in the modern church with the Emergent 
	Church Movement where they decry Bible study and want their followers to 
	focus on experience by emptying their mind hoping that God will minister to 
	them but unfortunately, just like getting drunk, both the drunk and the 
	empty mind are havens for demonic activity. 
	This is why Christians should avoid any contact with alcohol or the 
	experience based Emergent Church Movement. 
	Both of these are detrimental to the Christian.
	
	
	
	
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		Eph 5:19
- Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing 
		and making melody in your heart to the Lord;
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- Here is the continuation of being filled with the Spirit. 
		A Christian must begin to fill their mind with spiritual things. 
		We are to reject the music and teachings of the world and begin 
		to fill the renewed mind with spiritual things. 
		“And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;” (Ephesians 4:23)
		 “And have put on the new
		man, which is renewed in 
		knowledge after the image of him that created him:” 
		(Colossians 3:10) 
		This 
		verse gives us some ways we are to remain in the Spiritual mind. 
		First, we speak the Psalms. 
		The Psalms were used as guidelines for singing. 
		Even today there are hymn books which carry these Psalm based 
		Hymns.  When I was 
		member of the Hungarian Reformed Church, we sang out of the 
		Psalter Hymnal which had hymns written according to the Psalms, many of 
		them going back to the 16th century. 
		Not only Psalms are we to sing but hymns which are based solely 
		on the Scriptures.  Hymns 
		like Amazing Grace and Rock of Ages which have been around for almost 
		300 years have stood the test of time because of the truths within those 
		songs.  If they were 
		unscriptural songs, they never would have made it to almost every church 
		hymnal since they were written.
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- Then we are to sing spiritual songs. 
		The word “songs” is where we get our word “ode.” 
		It can be a song which focuses in on Grace, Joy, or some other 
		spiritual topic.  The true 
		spiritual song is an ode to the Lord Jesus Christ. 
		We are also to be singing in joy unto the Lord. 
		There are some churches which do not allow music in their 
		services and they rob much of the joy for the people. 
		I am not speaking of the rock and roll bands of the Charismatic 
		movement, but the instruments which help create a spiritual overtone for 
		the service.  Some of the 
		Godly instruments used are organ, harp, piano, and panpipes which create 
		an atmosphere which is conducive to spiritual growth. 
		The word melody carries with it the meaning of “praise.” 
		Have you ever been discouraged or downtrodden? 
		Sometimes taking a good hymn book and singing the old hymns will 
		bring you right out of it.  
		You will have a new perspective on your situation and that praise honors 
		God, even in our darkest hour, the praises will lift our spirits and we 
		will see that we can endure the worst of times. 
		During the time of slavery in this country, there was found a new 
		type of spiritual sound, which was called “Plantation Gospel.” 
		It was the combination of the purity of Scripture and the 
		hopelessness of slavery, which created the songs of praise to the Lord. 
		After I heard about Plantation Gospel some years ago, I then 
		realized who freed the slaves in this country. 
		Lincoln was only the vessel but God was the true emancipator. 
		God is still emancipating people out of the slavery of sin.
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		Eph 5:20
- Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name 
		of our Lord Jesus Christ;
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- As part of the singing and praising of God that we saw in the last 
		verse, we are also told to give thanks to God for all things. 
		Now it is hard to give thanks to God when it seems the bottom has 
		fallen out of our lives, but if we are a student of the Scriptures, we 
		will know that even a disaster can be to the glory of God. 
		We must never forget, that He is the potter and we are the clay. 
		The Scripture tells us to give thanks in Jesus name. 
		Now many take this phrase and abuse it. 
		Some think it is a formula to get what you want. 
		“In Jesus Name I rebuke the disease!” 
		“In Jesus name I want a new car!” 
		You get the idea.  
		When the Bible uses that term, it is for believers only. 
		The only way to be “in Jesus name” is to be in Jesus! 
		“Being justified freely by 
		his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus:” 
		(Romans 3:24) “There is 
		therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, 
		who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.” 
		(Romans 8:1)  “Nor 
		height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us 
		from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Rom 
		8:39 KJV) “I say the truth in Christ, I lie not, my conscience 
		also bearing me witness in the Holy Ghost,” (Romans 9:1)  As 
		you can see in these four verses, the term “In Christ Jesus” appears. 
		The true Christian is in Christ Jesus and they are in Jesus name. 
		So when a person gives thanks to the Father “in Jesus name,” the 
		verse is teaching us that the person is a true believer. 
		When you were born into the world, you belonged to your earthly 
		father and you were given his name. 
		So you literally were in his name as a member of his family.
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		Eph 5:21
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		Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
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- Submitting - Submit one’s self to or submission
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		 In the area of submission, when one submits they are basically setting 
		themselves for accountability.  
		Each Christian should be accountable to each other in the fear of God. 
		This action of submission is not a singular event but it carries 
		with it the idea of something that is done continuously. 
		There are Christians who will not submit to any authority and 
		that is why they will not join a church. 
		Submission will help prevent a Christian from going into sin if 
		they are in submission to another. 
		Submission is the great humbler. 
		We submit to one another in fear of God, that if we go into sin 
		then we will face the chastisement of God, which is much worse than 
		initial submission.  Voluntary 
		submission should be the way for a Christian to go but if they will not, 
		then the fear of God should be the great motivator in this case. 
		“For if I do this thing 
		willingly, I have a reward: but if against my will, a dispensation
		of the gospel is 
		committed unto me.”  (1 
		Corinthians 9:17)  
		It is the same 
		principle we see in this verse.  
		Either Paul does the work that God assigns him willingly or he does it 
		because he must.
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