Who is
the Enemy of Christians?
By Dr. Ken
Matto
But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that
curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully
use you, and persecute you; (Matthew 5:44)
Many times when we read about enemies in scripture
immediately our political associations take over.
I remember growing up all we ever heard was that the Soviet Union was our
enemy and Red China was our enemy.
I would include Cuba in that too since I lived during the Cuban Missile Crisis
in 1962. It is quite interesting
that prayer was taken out of schools in June 1962 and four months later we had
nuclear missiles pointing at us.
Was the Lord trying to get our attention by allowing three communist nations to
desire our destruction?
As Christians we must approach the idea that term enemy
takes on a different approach. It
is true that communist ideology has no tolerance for true Christianity but the
Bible brings the fact home that the enemies of Christianity are not necessarily
political enemies but are literally in our backyard.
The Lord Jesus Christ touched on the subject of the enemies of
Christianity many times and that we could expect opposition as a large part of
our earthly existence.
34 Think not that I am come to send peace on
earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword. 35 For I am come to set
a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and
the daughter in law against her mother in law. 36 And a man's foes
shall be they of his own household. (Matthew 10:34-36)
There are two kingdoms in this world:
The Kingdom of God and the kingdom of Satan.
The reality is that you are saved or unsaved making you part of one of
those kingdoms. In Matthew 10:34-36
we have tremendous insight into where you can find your enemies.
When a person becomes saved, then they receive inner
peace through the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy,
peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, (Galatians 5:22) This
passage speaks of peace in a different manner. This passage is not speaking of
the inner peace but is speaking of the opposite of peace. Jesus had a ministry
of love, mercy, and grace when He walked in this world. That type of ministry
did not bring peace to the areas where He ministered. Instead, it brought
opposition and hatred of Him. Wherever He went to minister, there were people
who welcomed Him but there was also the religious leaders who opposed and hated
Him. So even though the Lord Jesus was peace personified, that peace brought a
sword of opposition and that opposition brought aggression among the people,
disharmony, and fighting. The sword may even be referring to the word of God
which cuts a person right to the core and minces no words.
For the word of God is quick, and
powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing
asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of
the thoughts and intents of the heart. (Hebrews 4:12) The word of God is so
powerful that it actually is a discerner of the thought and intents of the
heart. This is what the evil leaders had feared.
In verse 35 the Bible uses the term “variance” which
carries with it the meaning of “apart, divide, cause disunion, or a state of
disagreement.” Jesus did not
intentionally come to divide families but because of the nature of the Gospel,
families would have much division because of it. We read about Jewish families
that hold funeral services for a child who becomes born again. In Islamic
countries, those who become born again in a family of Islam, it is an instant
death sentence. This is the same in Hinduism where Christians are persecuted and
family members betray those who are saved. In many countries, families would be
urged to betray those who have become Christians. In many families, one person
may become saved and they will suffer the snipes and barbs of other members of
the family. In this world, Christians may have inner peace but outer peace will
be very hard to find.
Then in verse
36 the Lord gives a stark reality that many Christians do not realize.
The enemies that we encounter will be within our own homes.
Never mind outside the front door.
If a person in a family of four becomes saved and the other three remain
unsaved, then those three are the enemy of the Christian.
This is because when a person becomes saved their ideology changes along
with their behavior. Their life’s
focus will change and their lifestyle will be opposite of those still in the
kingdom of Satan. I remember when I
became saved one of my drinking buddies told my other friends that “I went off
the deep end.” Whenever you do
something like go to church, your family will look at you strangely.
My brother is still unsaved and I remember him coming into my room when I
was studying and he said to me, “Do you think I want to be like you sitting
around and reading all that church sh*t?”
So there was Satan attacking me through my brother because he was and
still is an enemy of the true gospel.
I had told my mother that I wanted to go to Seminary and she looked at me
with a look on her face I never saw before, it was an evil look.
In verse 36 Jesus states it plain that the enemies of
the true Christian will be right in their own household. The word “foes” can be
understood as “enemies.” They do not have to look far to find the enemy and that
is because the unbeliever is spiritually dead and is tied to this world and
system, whereas the born again Christian is spiritually alive unto God and cares
not about the things of the world but focuses on the Glory of God and obedience
to Christ. Two totally different ideologies which will crash head on many times
as long as they are under one roof. I want to expand the meaning of household
here beyond the nuclear family. The place where you work is like a household for
8 or 10 hours per day and once you become saved and don’t go out for drinks
anymore or tell dirty jokes, you will be looked at very differently and you will
experience loneliness or other types of persecution because no longer will the
crowd include you in their dealings. You may also be in a dead church and now
you are made alive, you will suffer snide comments and opposition. This I know
because I faced it. Many years ago I was an elder in a dead church and brought
up the fact that the churches need to be more Christ centered. I was verbally
called a “holy roller” by a minister.
Once I preached at an elders conference in my church and one of the
comments came back to me, “who is he to tell us how to live?” So it is not only
the members of your family which will be your enemies but those in your work
place, church, fraternal organization, etc. In other words: Be sober, be
vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about,
seeking whom he may devour: (1 Peter 5:8)
In Zechariah 12:11-14, we have a similar situation which
took place in Israel. We saw above
that that the word “variance” also carries with it the meaning of “apart.”
11 In that day shall there be a great
mourning in Jerusalem, as the mourning of Hadadrimmon in the valley of Megiddon.
12 And the land shall mourn, every family apart; the family of the
house of David apart, and their wives apart; the family of the house of Nathan
apart, and their wives apart; 13 The family of the house of Levi
apart, and their wives apart; the family of Shimei apart, and their wives apart;
14 All the families that remain, every family apart, and their wives
apart. (Zechariah 12:11-14)
In verse 11 we see that on the day that the Lord Jesus Christ was crucified,
there was a great mourning in the city of Jerusalem. {27} And there followed
him a great company of people, and of women, which also bewailed and lamented
him. {48} And all the people that came together to that sight, beholding the
things which were done, smote their breasts, and returned. (Luke 23:27 & 48) The
mourning of Hadadrimmon in the valley of Megiddon was over the death of Josiah
when he was killed in battle in the valley of Megiddo. {24} His servants
therefore took him out of that chariot, and put him in the second chariot that
he had; and they brought him to Jerusalem, and he died, and was buried in one of
the sepulchres of his fathers. And all Judah and Jerusalem mourned for
Josiah. {25} And Jeremiah lamented for Josiah: and all the singing men and the
singing women spake of Josiah in their lamentations to this day, and made them
an ordinance in Israel: and, behold, they are written in the lamentations. (2
Chronicles 35:24-25)
In verse 12, we read that
after the crucifixion, there would be such lamenting and mourning over the death
of the Lord Jesus Christ that it would reach down to the individual families in
Jerusalem and all the ranks of that society would experience that sadness
because at this time they were grieving since the third day when Jesus was
resurrected had not yet arrived so the true believers in Jerusalem were in
mourning till then. In Jewish custom the wives were separate from their
husbands in the homes so they would grieve apart in their own rooms as the
children would also. Here we have specific names mentioned. The house of David
would mourn because Jesus was in the Davidic line and was the Messiah. Then
Nathan the prophet is mentioned and they would mourn because Jesus was also a
great prophet and the things he prophesied had and would come to pass. And I
fell at his feet to worship him. And he said unto me, See thou do it not: I am
thy fellowservant, and of thy brethren that have the testimony of Jesus: worship
God: for the testimony of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy. (Revelation 19:10)
In verse 13 there is a
continuation of the situation. Then
the house of Levi is mentioned because the Lord Jesus Christ being the High
Priest for his people was shown contempt which means that the Jews showed scorn
for the Levitical Priesthood. Then the family of Shimei was mentioned in that
Shimei was the one that cursed David in 2 Samuel 16. They would have mourned
because like Shimei cursing David, the people of Jerusalem cursed Christ even
when he was on the cross. And the people stood beholding. And the rulers
also with them derided him, saying, He saved others; let him save himself, if he
be Christ, the chosen of God. (Luke 23:35) And they that passed by reviled
him, wagging their heads, (Matthew 27:39)
In verse 14 we find that the crucifixion affected all the other families in
Jerusalem who were not related to the kingly or priestly line would have been in
mourning, those that were the followers of Jesus and those who believed in
him. Just like the disciples on the road to Emmaus. {20} And how the chief
priests and our rulers delivered him to be condemned to death, and have
crucified him. {21} But we trusted that it had been he which should have
redeemed Israel: and beside all this, to day is the third day since these things
were done. (Luke 24:20-21)
Love Our Enemies
But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that
curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which
despitefully use you, and persecute you; (Matthew 5:44)
Let us go back to our theme verse and find out what
loving our enemies means. The word
“despitefully” carries with it the meaning of “insult, revile, or treat
abusively.”
Jesus now contrasts the hate messages the people have received by the leaders
over the years and gives them four basic changes of mind in dealing with those
who will oppress them:
Love your enemies -
This is not the phony Hollywood type of love but the true sacrificing type of
love on behalf of someone who is the enemy of Christians. As I stated before, an
unbeliever is still in the kingdom of Satan and is therefore the enemy of the
Christian as Satan is the enemy of God. The highest form of love a Christian can
show to an unbeliever is to bring him or her the Gospel desiring to see them
become saved. Earthly goods will fade and be burnt up but salvation is for
eternity and Christians who sacrifice time and personal wealth to see others
come into the Kingdom of God are showing true Christian love to the enemies.
Bless them that curse you -
A blessing is not just standing around and saying to the unbeliever “God bless
you.” A blessing from God is an intervention in the life of His children. In the
same manner that God blesses us, we are to bless or intervene in the life of
those that curse us. A curse is when someone wishes evil upon you. It can even
mean someone who is actually doing evil against you so the word goes beyond just
words or malicious intent. You can
intervene with something as simple as a gospel tract.
Do good to them that hate you -
The word “good” carries with it the meaning of “correctly, well, or
commendably.” All unbelievers, especially religious unbelievers will be in
constant opposition to the message of the true Gospel. Since they cannot attack
and change the message, they attack the messenger. The believer is to respond to
them in such a manner that their hatred of us is returned with goodness. If we
seek vengeance, then we only cause every matter to explode but if we repay
hatred with goodness, then we disarm the enemy and we become instant witnesses
for the Gospel and we also become a witness against their hatred.
If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. (Romans
12:18)
And pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; -
Nowhere in Scripture is this portrayed better than in the life of the Lord Jesus
Christ.
And when they were come to the place, which is called Calvary, there they
crucified him, and the malefactors, one on the right hand, and the other on the
left. {34} Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they
do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots. (Luke
23:33-34) While they were nailing Jesus to the cross, He was praying for
those who were doing it and asking for their forgiveness. A disciple who
followed the example of Jesus was Stephen, when he was being stoned for telling
the truth, he too prayed for his executioners.
And he kneeled down, and cried with a loud voice, Lord, lay not this sin to
their charge. And when he had said this, he fell asleep. (Acts
7:60)
The principle of praying for our enemy should be a part of every Christian’s
lifestyle. Have you prayed for someone to be saved? Then you have prayed for the
enemy. One day I was waiting at a red light and a woman in a car came up next to
me and saw my bumper stickers. She told me that if she could, she would slit all
four of my tires. Little did she know that her evil comments caused her to be
added to my daily prayer list. She was from Pennsylvania and I live in New
Jersey so I may never know the outcome until we are in glory. Nevertheless, you
do not need to worry about outcome. You just obey and leave the results to God.
Summary
The bottom line is that every unsaved person is an enemy of the gospel and if you are saved they are your enemy. If you think this is not true, then bring up salvation the next time your family is watching TV or at dinner and see the response you get. I have given some of the responses I have gotten from both close family members and strangers. Your own unsaved family members are your enemy because they are still in the kingdom of Satan but you are in the Kingdom of God. Remember the human race is divided into two camps: the saved and the unsaved. However, this does not mean we look down our noses at the unsaved, in fact, you should have pity on them knowing their destination if they do not get saved. Remember, that you are saved by grace and nothing that you did. This is why we are to have the mindset of giving them the gospel whether it is by leaving materials around for them to read or direct conversation. Never get angry at your family if they don’t become saved the first time you speak to them. George Mueller prayed for someone for 50 years and the man became saved at Mueller’s funeral. I have been praying for my brother’s salvation for 40 years so never give up!