- Train up a
Child (New Believers Training!)
- by Dr. Ken Matto
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- (Prov 22:6 KJV) Train up a child in the
way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
- Normally we always associate the above
verse with training up little children which the Lord has given to us but I believe it has
a wider meaning in that it is imperative that we train a new believer in a proper and
biblical method. When we train a new Christian properly, they will then begin a biblical
foundation on which to continually build and as they mature in the faith, they will not
drift into an unbiblical pattern of thinking and living.
- I would like to give a list of items
which would be profitable for new believers to be associated with at a very early age.
These items will help a new believer develop a full Christian walk early on and will make
them feel part of the Great Commission, not having to wait until some future date to get
involved, which by that time discouragement may begin to set in. Many churches give new
believers classes on subjects as baptism, church history, and other subjects which seem to
relate only to the local church they are attending and after that it seems any other
learning is relegated to the Sunday School. I would like to give a list of items which
should be a curriculum for new believers in every church to give them a right start in
their Christian walk. Let us now look at the list.
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- Missions
- (Isa 52:7 KJV) How beautiful upon the
mountains are the feet of him that bringeth good tidings, that publisheth peace; that
bringeth good tidings of good, that publisheth salvation; that saith unto Zion, Thy God
reigneth!
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- One of the first areas of Christianity
the new believer should be acquainted with is missions. The primary responsibility of the
true church is to send forth the gospel to the uttermost parts of the earth. I know when I
became a Christian in 1981, the man whom the Lord sent to disciple me put a love for
missions in my heart almost immediately.
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- Giving
- (Luke 6:38 KJV) Give, and it shall be
given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall
men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be
measured to you again.
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- Another important area a new believer
needs to be quickly acquainted with is the area of giving. Not only should they be taught
the principle of tithing, but that tithing is only the beginning point of giving. Money is
not the only thing we give unto God, we give ourselves as well.
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- Early Involvement
- (Jer 1:6-7 KJV) Then said I, Ah, Lord
GOD! behold, I cannot speak: for I am a child. {7} But the LORD said unto me, Say not, I
am a child: for thou shalt go to all that I shall send thee, and whatsoever I command thee
thou shalt speak.
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- One thing a church should do is to
involve new believers in the Lord's work in the church. They may not know much but if they
work side by side with mature believers they will begin to develop their spiritual gifts
and will then be able to work in the proper sphere of service which God has empowered them
to. We can call it "apprenticeship Christianity." We must realize that the only
way a Christian develops is through involvement.
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- Christian Radio
- (Josh 1:8 KJV) This book of the law
shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that
thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt
make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.
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- Many times we are in our cars for
extended periods of time or sometimes we are allowed to have radios at work. This affords
us the opportunity to find a good Christian station and be edified for longer periods of
time than normal study times. I know many times I was searching for an answer to some
biblical question and then I will hear it on the radio. Good quality Christian radio is
important. There is much garbage on many Christian radio stations which must be avoided.
This is where the mature Christians can guide the new believers.
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- KJV
- (Psa 12:6 KJV) The words of the LORD
are pure words: as silver tried in a furnace of earth, purified seven times.
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- It is also good to teach a new
Christian to use the King James Version. Every Christian I know that is worth anything to
the kingdom of God has been trained by the KJV. The modern versions are just confusing,
even to Christians older in the faith. Just think if churches used the KJV again, the
pastor wouldn't have to read the same verse ten times over in different translations.
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- Biblical Training
- (2 Tim 3:16 KJV) All scripture is given
by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for
instruction in righteousness:
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- The key to training a child right is
the use of the Bible as the textbook for growth and not some Sunday School lessons which
draw on the world and psychology for it's basis of teaching. The Bible and the Bible alone
is the training manual.
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- Study techniques
- (1 Cor 2:13 KJV) Which things also we
speak, not in the words which man's wisdom teacheth, but which the Holy Ghost teacheth;
comparing spiritual things with spiritual.
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- New believers must be taught that the
Bible is it's own interpreter and that outside materials such as "fantasy
island" prophecy books, news magazines, newspapers, or the Jerusalem Post or Y2K
propaganda has nothing to do with Bible interpretation. The Bible alone will give the
meaning of verses. When I dumped all my prophecy books out, the Holy Spirit then cleared
up all my biblical interpretation and He then taught me Scripture according to Scripture.
I mean c'mon now, is there really going to be a beast with seven heads and ten horns with
crowns coming out of the physical sea?
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- Heavenly Discipline
- (Heb 12:6 KJV) For whom the Lord loveth
he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.
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- A new believer must be taught they are
to be obedient to God and to follow the dictates of Scripture. If they attempt to walk in
the ways of the world, God will discipline them. If they understand that they are children
of God which means they are subject to discipline, they will be careful of their walk in
the Lord.
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- Church or house church attendance
- (Heb 10:25 KJV) Not forsaking the
assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and
so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.
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- The new believer must have stressed to
them the importance of fellowshipping with other true believers.
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- Communion
- (1 Cor 11:28-30 KJV) But let a man
examine himself, and so let him eat of that bread, and drink of that cup. {29} For he that
eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning
the Lord's body. {30} For this cause many are weak and sickly among you, and many sleep.
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- The new believer must be taught the
seriousness of taking Communion, that it is not a church ritual or tradition but rather a
solemn occasion and there are penalties associated with taking it unworthily. If a person
is saved they may partake of it. If a person has something against someone, they need to
rectify it before taking communion or not take it for the time being, there is no sin or
wrong in that.
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- Sunday School
- (Psa 119:66 KJV) Teach me good judgment
and knowledge: for I have believed thy commandments.
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- If there is one thing that the churches
have a hard time doing, it is getting Christians to come to Sunday School. I don't
understand it! My church has Sunday school at 10:00 AM. Monday I get up for work at 6:00
AM and am off and running at 7:00 AM. So how come Christians can get up for work very
early but can't make it to Sunday School for 9:30-10:00? New believers should be taught
that Sunday School is a great place for exchange of biblical ideas and a place to learn
much practical Biblical theology. An interactive Sunday School is so profitable for both
student and teacher.
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- Home Bible Studies
- (Rom 16:5 KJV) Likewise greet the
church that is in their house. Salute my wellbeloved Epaenetus, who is the firstfruits of
Achaia unto Christ.
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- A new believer must be shown that home
Bible studies, normally on a week night, are very profitable. These home studies engender
intimacy among believers and a great growth potential. Home Bible studies also offer a
non-threatening environment in which the new believer may feel comfortable in asking
questions which may seem simple to us, but new to them.
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- Root them in major doctrines
- (1 Tim 4:6 KJV) If thou put the
brethren in remembrance of these things, thou shalt be a good minister of Jesus Christ,
nourished up in the words of faith and of good doctrine, whereunto thou hast attained.
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- One of the areas in which the church
has departed from is the teaching of the great doctrines of the faith. The church must
return to teaching the great doctrines of the faith to root the new believer. It is these
great doctrines which open up the Scriptures to us and give us a great foundation for our
faith. A new believer who learns the doctrines of the faith will surely not depart from
sound teaching and understanding.
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- Christian Separation
- (Ezek 22:26 KJV) Her priests have
violated my law, and have profaned mine holy things: they have put no difference between
the holy and profane, neither have they showed difference between the unclean and the
clean, and have hid their eyes from my sabbaths, and I am profaned among them.
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- Another important principle a new
believer must learn is the "principle of separation." We cannot do the things
the world does, whether it be home or on the job. We must exude a good testimony before
the world and the new believer must be taught what the difference is between worldly ways
and Godly ways. The world must see the difference between them and God's people.
Compromising with the world always leads to heartache.
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- Prayer
- (Jer 33:3 KJV) Call unto me, and I will
answer thee, and show thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not.
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- Prayer is intimate communication
between God and His children and the new believer should be taught the importance of a
steady and faithful prayer life.
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- Christian Fellowship
- (1 John 1:7 KJV) But if we walk in the
light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus
Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.
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- The new believer must be taught that
fellowship with Christians is imperative. The new believer does not have to worry about
his or her old friends. As soon as they find out they are born again, the worldly friends
will begin to go their separate ways and God will fill the void with new Christian friends
which will be beneficial for growth.
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- John 3:30
- (John 3:30 KJV) He must increase, but I
must decrease.
- One thing a new believer must be taught
is to guard against any and every form of pride. Christ must take preeminence in our lives
and not us. As we progress in the faith, Christ must be seen and not us.
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- Satan and his snares
- (1 Pet 5:8 KJV) Be sober, be vigilant;
because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may
devour:
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- The new believer must be taught that as
soon as they become saved, they have an enemy which is determined to trip them up any way
he can. They must also be taught that Satan is a defeated foe and has no authority over
the believer.
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- Cults & False Gospels
- (1 John 2:19 KJV) They went out from
us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have
continued with us: but they went out, that they might be made manifest that they were not
all of us.
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- The new believer must be taught that
not everyone who names the name of Christ is truly a Christian. They must be taught about
the way cults twist the Scriptures and rely on other writings as their authority. If a new
Christian is warned about cults, they will not get snared because they will ask the right
questions.
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- Adversity
- (Isa 43:2 KJV) When thou passest
through the waters, I will be with thee; and through the rivers, they shall not overflow
thee: when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; neither shall the
flame kindle upon thee.
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- Last but not least, the new Christian
must know that there will be times of adversity in their lives but God is right there with
them as He is in the good times. If the new Christian knows that hard times will come,
they will not become discouraged but will endure through the valley of adversity knowing
that God has not abandoned them.
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- I hope these few suggestions will serve
as a spiritual cudgel to train up that new believer the correct way. Teaching them the
basics of the Christian faith is a necessity and the teaching must be thorough, so the new
Christian will grasp it. May God guide you as you "Feed His Lambs."
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